Whatever may be

One of the ways to get over the past is to get rid of things that remind you of the past. The most obvious item would be pictures.

So you have done your part, you have thrown it away, deleted it, burned it. Even your parents and ex in laws have done their part. Book closed, never to be revisited.

And then one night you go to this place, and you see the past framed, in photo albums. You got upset and spoke your mind. But instead of being understood, you became the villain, for always dictating others what to do with their lives and things.

So you thought, maybe it was there on purpose, maybe that is why you are not approved of. Or maybe, it was overlooked. It is possible, after all, the house is cluttered with things. Then you suggested, that maybe, just maybe, if it's thrown out, nobody would ever notice.

But no. It is not that person's place, it is not their right to meddle. Which makes sense, but it was their life, their past on display.

So you were called rude. You have been called this.You told that person, that yes, you are rude. That's why you are not married anymore.

You decided to not be upset anymore. You decided to accept that not everything will be in your control or in your favour. Just enjoy the ride while it lasts, that was what you told yourself. Whatever may be, may be.